So lately i've been thinking about something that was brought on by the TLC show "18 Children adnd Counting" and the Twilight Series. While I realize neither of these things seem to go hand in had, I have found a parallel. I've just finished up the 3rd book, Eclipse, in the Twilight Saga. I'll admit to feeling very complled to this series. I honestly think I wish I had an Edward. I am all about having a partner who exists only because of my being, and without me, would not survive. But, also, I wish I felt that same way. That isn't what this post is about though. What the post is about is giving your heart away before you mean to or should. See in the Duggars show, the don't allow their kids to date because they don't want their children giving pieces of their heart away to others before they find the one they'll spend their life with. I can agree with this in a way. I have people i've dated in my past who all have pieces of my heart...of my being. If Bella had not gone to Jacob to help her heal her heart, she wouldn't be in the pain she is. Jacob would not be hurting, Edward wouldn't feel like he was forcing her choose and she would not be in the midst of her current struggle.
I used to think that dating someone without the desire to marry them was alright. I seem to disagree now. Why leave small parts of your heart with various people when you could devote the entire thing to one person.
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